Strike Strategy that works fairly

I have realised that amidst knowing your openings, and black's responses to White's openings, your mid-games, and end-games highly depends on strike strategy. And this strike strategy relies so much on how to control your opponents psyche. Cos, there are some strikes that looks like an attack which at the end of the game, makes you give out your opportunity of winning.

Okay hello I am not going anywhere well bye